10. Finally, stir it up plus take to something completely new! Whether it's role-playing, creating your fantasy scenario, or experimenting with BDSM, trying something beyond ones comfort zone can add excitement and exhilaration to your sexual repertoire.Finally, experimentation and attempting brand new things can help break down barriers and make sex more exciting and enjoyable. Try new positions, toys, or fantasies which fulfill your desires, and communicate openly and safely with your mate by what you both want.